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Racial Identity and Happiness

September 18th, 2010

I want to let you in on something. My new project that has been keeping me from posting here as often as I should and want is called 'Mixed In Different Shades' and is about the history of inter-cultural relationships and mixed heritage people around the world. How are these two things related you might ask, a blog dealing with trying to find happiness and a history of various small populations around the world? Let me explain.

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'Mixed' History In The Making

September 16th, 2010

A recent study by Leeds University that spawned a score of news stories (BBC, Guardian) estimated that numbers of ethnic minorities in the UK will grow from 8 to 20 per cent of the population in 2051.  Apart from the 'other white' ethnic group which will be the fuelled by expected high levels of immigration from Europe, Australasia and the US, the percentage of people identifying themselves as being of 'mixed race' is expected to grow substantially.

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If This Is The New Entrepreneur, We're In Trouble

September 14th, 2010

Having recently moved for being principally a web developer working on software that allowed educators to create, manage and distribute content to being a content creator and distributor directly to consumers, I have become aware of a new type of rapidly growing internet entrepreneur, the marketer.

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Worry About Our Education Sector

September 13th, 2010

My daughter just came back from her old college where she had been asked by them to attend to request a letter confirming her leaving date.  The letter is required by the Job Centre and you would expect it is a common request by ex-college students.  She was told it would take up to 2 weeks to have the letter issued.  Considering that fact that the letter is usually required by other bureaucrats to allow some to for example, sign on as unemployed, you would think they would have their act together.

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Money can buy you happiness

September 8th, 2010

CAN money buy you happiness? The answer, it appears, depends on what you mean by "happiness". High earners are generally more satisfied with their lives, it seems, but a persons day-to-day emotional wellbeing is only influenced by money up to a certain point.

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China and India will make the west poorer?

August 25th, 2010

"The current financial crisis could bring about a change in the international economic order with countries like China and India becoming the dominant global economic powers."   The Chief Economist of one of the world's biggest banks, HSBC, believes Asia's rise poses a threat to prosperity in the West.

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Junk Food & Drugs

August 13th, 2010

Fast food outlets should hand out  a statin pill, a cholesterol-lowering drug, to customers to combat the effects of fatty food, say an Imperial College London team.

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Dancing Happiness

July 21st, 2010

When you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance. [Lee Ann Womack - I Hope You Dance*]

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Rent A Friend Week

July 20th, 2010

“I am available on most weeknights, not degree educated but well versed in matters of politics, economics, religion and the like. Personal disasters like career disappointments and failed romantic encounters can be discussed and I am not too averse to bouncing balls, kicking balls and hitting balls with a bat but much prefer the kind of play available at the local night club. I can hold my liquor quite well and am unlikely to return any curries eaten under the influence. Being a little on the large side enables me to fireman lift any friend to whom the excitement becomes too much. All this for the price of a taxi ride home! Bookings being take now, form an orderly queue please, we’re British.”

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Racism, Tribalism, Classism - Prejudice without Substance

July 19th, 2010

My 60 year plus mother holds some very set view about certain sections of society that may have some basis in experience but most likely does not. Since she comes for the generation of the great –isms, I assumed that my siblings and I just brushed off these prejudices, sometimes with argument. Imagine my surprise when discussing a certain serious family issue with one of my siblings when they strongly expressed an opinion consistent with one of my mother’s which I know is not based in their experience.

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Ambition - When Family Is Not Enough....

July 18th, 2010

Unlike many of my peers, when I was in my middle teenage years, I knew that I wanted to have a family; I wanted to be a father. I was going to find the right woman, get married, have babies and have a good job to support it all. I knew this because I loved children, loved being amongst families, mostly other people’s, having had no real ‘family’ experience or so I thought at the time.

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The Changing Face Of Marriage

July 16th, 2010

We do not need to look for statistics to prove that the rate of marriage breakdowns is growing. Many of us have many have experienced it ourselves or have close family and friends who have and those of us with children will know that a significant proportion of their classmates come from ‘broken homes’. Some of those classmates will come from ‘single parent’ families where a marriage was never entered into in the first place but may have been a co-habitation or ‘break-up before marriage’ scenarios.

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When The Oppressed Become The Oppressors

July 13th, 2010

“Set me free so that I may do to others what you did to me.”

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The Simple Things....

July 9th, 2010

Here is one man's view of how the simple, not necessarily the easy, can make you happy.   Though written from the sense of the simple home in the Brazilian favelas compared to the high life in the USA, it is the emphasis on simplicity, difficulty and community that the sense of wellbeing is being found - What is Home?

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XXX-iting Fundraising

July 6th, 2010

A "big budget" pornographic film was shot in a London hospital when it hired out one of its wards to a film company.  The movie generated "substantial income" for the hospital, Conservative MP Penny Mordaunt said  BBC News - 'Big budget' porn film shot in London hospital.

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People Died For This!

July 2nd, 2010

"MPs in Kenya have voted to boost their own salaries, making them among the world’s best paid politicians."  http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/10476388.stm.  Apparently 'the vote has provoked anger from the general public and the media, correspondents say'.  Well I’m not surprised.  The Kenyan PM will earn more than the Uk Premier and the US President and this is a third world country with much lower costs of living.

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Nairobi - One Of The Most Expensive Cities

July 1st, 2010

Nairobi has made it into the list of the worlds most expensive cities for expatriates, according to a new survey.  The continued slide in the Nairobis ranking, experts warn, could make the East Africas hub less attractive to international workers.The cost of living index compiled by Mercer, an international human resource consultancy, has ranked the city at position 88 of the most expensive cities in the world-- the first time it has made it to the list of the top 100. It was ranked at no. 114 last year, meaning it has dropped 26 places to edge closer to the most costly city among the 214 polled. (allAfrica.com: Kenya: Nairobi Ranked Among Most Expensive Cities).

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Hate Father’s Day.

June 21st, 2010

On Father’s Day (at least in most parts of the world) , one of the popular hashtags on Twitter was #FuckFathersDay and a search of the words ‘hate’ and ‘father’ or ‘daddy’ would have displayed a frighteningly growing results list.

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British Firms Buy Chiadzwa 'Blood' Diamonds

June 19th, 2010

British and Belgian companies have been buying diamonds from the Chiadzwa fields while their governments claim the gems are "bloody" and Zimbabwe should not be given Kimberley Process Certification to export them see allAfrica.com: Zimbabwe: British Firms Buy Chiadzwa Diamonds.

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MSP quits over 'attractive girl' remark

June 17th, 2010

"To be blunt, it is the job of the convener to ensure his committee is running smoothly and efficiently - not to ogle members of the audience." Brian Taylor,Political editor, BBC Scotland BBC News - Frank McAveety quits over 'attractive girl' remark.

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Get A Life, It Is The World Cup!

June 15th, 2010

"Allowing people to take time out to watch football during working hours is simply too costly, untimely, and unfair," so says Willem Smit, a researcher at the Institute for Management Development (IMD) in Switzerland. Smit has reckoned that if just half the workforce in contending nations knocks off to cheer their side on during the World Cup games, the cost to the global economy could be $10.4 billion in lost production time alone - Soccer’s Bad Influence on Brazil (notice the soccer reference in the title).

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Headline Figures Don't Make Happy People

June 8th, 2010

Exactly who are these people? Who are these analysts, forecasters and experts that come up with this kind of talk that dominates our news stories?

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“Some Things Were Better Under Apartheid”

June 4th, 2010

Ian Smith , rebel leader of then Rhodesia, was reported to take great delight in telling all and sundry about the fact that many Zimbabwean ‘Africans’ he met told him that life was better under his regime than under the new independent Zimbabwe. In a mirror sentiment, BBC correspondent, Hugh Sykes discovers that some in post apartheid South Africa (BBC News - 'Some things were better under apartheid') hold a similar view.

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Money Talks: Aid Saves Gays in Malawi

June 3rd, 2010

Malawi President Bingu wa Mutharika has admitted that he pardoned a gay couple sentenced to 14 years because he was concerned about international aid (allAfrica.com: Malawi: Mutharika Pardoned Gays Because He Was Worried About Aid). I have nothing against gays, if 2 adult same gender persons wish to get it on, so be it. However, many of us are very aware that many stories do not make the news, we know not every murder, every child abduction, every shooting or stabbing or even every pit-bull ravished child makes it to the headlines and so what happens to the other gays that may be languishing in Malawi, carrying out ‘sodomy’ acts, will they get pardoned too? Will they avoid prosecution?

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Lighting Woes - Funny World

June 2nd, 2010

As Swansea council have decided to switch off around 1,500 street lights in in search of savings up to £100,000 a year (BBC News - Swansea Council begins street light cut backs), Cape Town in South Africa’s city bosses are to keep the lights on round the clock to deter thieves of a surging crime wave involving the theft of electricity cables blighting the city (Cape Town lights stay on in daylight to deter theft)

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Africa Must Find Its Way Out Of Poverty

June 1st, 2010

Namibia’s Bishop Zephania Kameeta recently said "the poor and unemployed, who make up half of the Namibian population, still cannot believe that President Pohamba said we cannot dish out money for free to people who do nothing." The bishop was commenting on Namibia’s President's comments on the Basic Income Grant (see allAfrica.com: Namibia: A Way Forward for Big Initiative).

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Does Science Need its Dissidents?

May 28th, 2010

Dr Andrew Wakefield, the doctor who first suggested a link between MMR vaccinations and autism, acted "dishonestly and irresponsibly", the official medical regulator found and has guilty of serious professional misconduct. Dr Wakefield has subsequently been struck off the medical register. (see http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/may/24/mmr-doctor-andrew-wakefield-struck-off). Dr Wakefield still stands by his findings and has vowed to continue the fight.

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Capitalist Morals Needed

May 9th, 2010

The financial crisis in Greece has lead to the expectation that the vultures are circling ready to make fortunes the like not seen since George Soros socked it to the bank of England on Black Wednesday in 1992. The vultures are not expected to show any mercy to the thousands who will lose jobs and houses and pensions in the sure to come feeding frenzy. And when they are done, it is expected that they will turn their eyes to other prey in Europe including the UK.

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African Resilience

May 8th, 2010

It never ceases to amaze me when many people are amazed at the resilience of the African people. Considering the harsh environment especially in the recent times that Africans have to live through, think Zimbabwe, you have to be resilient and persistent to survive. Stories like BBC News - Zimbabwe's forgotten children, struggling to survive and Op-Ed Columnist - Young Superheroes in a Hut - NYTimes.com express surprise at this survival instinct.

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Brazil's Sexy Image

May 7th, 2010

Someone told me in the recent past that Brazil and in particular Rio, wished to clean up their 'sexy' reputation as it gave foriegners the impression that Brazil is full of sex crazed people, especially the women. Not sure that President Lula'sreinforcement of theBrazil Health minister's call to have sex for better health (http://en.mercopress.com/2010/04/29/more-sex-to-combat-high-blood-pressure-recommends-brazilian-minister) will help that reputation much. Couple that with my earlier post 'Sexy Brazilian Males Need Help!', this is a country where sex appears to be a national obsession.

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Reading and Driving Bus Driver Suspended - Next Taxi Drivers

May 6th, 2010

A bus driver has been suspended after a passenger filmed him reading while driving.The West Midlands Travel driver steering with his elbows while holding a small boook. (BBC News - Bus driver filmed reading while driving in Birmingham).

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Mexico’s Immigration Dilemma

May 5th, 2010

Immigration, the world over, causes no end of unjustified hysteria and problems. Our politicians and newspapers in the UK love to take a swipe at immigrants every time they need someone to blame or just to give a good kick.

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Africa’s Continued Dependence on Europe

May 4th, 2010

Brazilian president Luiz Inácio Lula da Silva recently boasted that Brazil does the same amount of trade in Latin America and it does with the US and EU. (see http://is.gd/bY48J).

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"Vote Clegg, get Brown."

April 20th, 2010

Here is one of the reasons why 'elections' don't work for many people. When the leader of a party is urging voters to use tactical voting to elect them or to 'keep someone out of office' (Here’s what Labour can do about the Lib Dem dilemma), it would appear to me that my vote does not count for much in the grand scheme of things. What if I do like Clegg and genuinely want him to win, how do I do that without voting for him?

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Nature’s lessons

April 18th, 2010

“More than 1,000km from the event itself, Iceland’s second volcanic eruption in the space of a month has caused flights in the UK to be grounded.” BBC News - Iceland volcano: Why a cloud of ash has grounded flights.

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The Rhodesian Mentality

April 10th, 2010

The stories over the past few days about the death of South Africa’s defender of apartheid has had me shaking my head and today’s story about his funeral and the reaction and comments of his followers gave me a sense of déjà-vu (BBC News - Eugene Terreblanche: Love and hate).

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The World Conspires With You

April 4th, 2010

If you regularly read my blog, you will know that I tend to take anything sold by the ‘quote a minute’ self help American gurus with a large pinch of salt. One of the central planks of the success brigade is that if you decide where you are going, the world will conspire to help you.

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‘Tennis Girl’ Sadness

April 3rd, 2010

I am not so sure why but this story from the BBC website made me sad. I think, but I am not sure, it has something to do with ‘5 minutes of fame’ or is there a sense that there is much more to the story than meets the eye?

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Negative Friends and Yes Men

March 31st, 2010

If you happen to be one of the millions of people who either read or listen to the success self-help gurus that the USA seems to be able to generate in their thousands sprouting such terms as NLP, the Secret, 10 habits and other such like, the you would recognise the advice that you do not need to have negative friends.

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Joy is like sex

March 29th, 2010

"Money brings happiness. Fine. In that case, everyone who earns enough to have a high standard of living would be able to stop work. But then they’re more troubled than ever, as if they were afraid of losing everything. Money attracts money, that’s true. Poverty might bring unhappiness, but money wont necessarily bring happiness.I spent a lot of my life looking for happiness, now what I want is joy. Joy is like sex – it begins and ends. I want pleasure. I want to be contended, but happiness? I no longer fall into that trap."

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Love Being Alone

March 28th, 2010

“If you cannot be by yourself for an hour, or for a day, or for a week then you don’t like yourself” so rants ‘Payroll da Pimp’ in his ‘Rebirth’ audio book. [WARNING : Do not look this book up if you are easily offended – whilst the book is positive – the language used to deliver it is likely to upset, if you are over, say, 30 .] Dr. Wayne Dyer, internationally best-selling author of ‘The Power Of Intention’ is reported to have said “You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.”

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The Right To Be Happy

March 27th, 2010

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

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Facebook Helps You Get Syphilis

March 26th, 2010

But a facebook spokesman point out that "Facebook is no more responsible for STD transmission than newspapers are responsible for bad vision", a snide poke at the silly newspaper stories pointing to a link between the use of the social networking sites such as Facebook and the spread of sexually transmitted disease syphilis, because such sites make it easier for people to meet new partners.

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School Asthma Death Due to Negligence

March 24th, 2010

Considering that it is a known fact that the incidents of asthma are increasing in the UK, the death of Sam Linton last week is a scary issue for those of us who have children who suffer from it. The fact that it wasdecided that it was due to neglect makes this such a sad incident.

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Man on trial over airport bomb tweet

March 18th, 2010

Should we file this under "Waste of Taxpayers' Money"? Did Paul Chambers have the means to do so? Did he really mean it or it was said because the damn airport was closed? Doncaster has an airport? You learn something everyday.

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I'm Not Waiting for God.

March 17th, 2010

You see them after travelling peak hours in the UK, every weekday, shuffling on the buses with their free passes, in some places trying to get on the bus before off peak time. You see them once or twice a week queued up outside post offices and if you happen into a pub (bar), they are there, nursing a pint of something for hours sometimes playing cards or dominos or choosing horses or greyhounds from some broadsheet newspaper and sending the 'bookie' runabout to place a bet for them. You might also spot them in the local butcher or at the Wednesday market buying two sausages for 'tea'. My wife will tell you that nothing frightens her husband more that joining the ranks of the 'one foot in the grave' brigade.

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Pension freeze must be lifted.

March 16th, 2010

"Pensioners who moved to countries such as Australia and Canada only receive the level of pension paid at retirement - which might be only £6 per week. A court ruling from the European Court of Human Rights will decide on Tuesday whether they should receive increases."

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Malawi: Police Chasing Gays

March 14th, 2010

"Lilongwe — Malawi is quickly becoming unsafe for homosexuals as the country's police service recently launched a campaign to hunt down and arrest prominent people who are suspected of being gay."

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Donor's Mother Meets Saved Girl

March 11th, 2010

For the first time in Scotland a family who donated their dead relatives organs and the person that received one of them have met. See BBC News - Mother meets girl who received sons liver. This story made me feel good about the fact that I have chosen and made known that I wish to be an organ donor after I 'kick the bucket'. If you have thought about it and not done anything about it, now is the time and do it now.

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The Haunting Of My Heart

March 10th, 2010

"As you move into your forties and fifties, the recognition of your own mortality becomes more and more a part of decision-making. You realize that you're not going to be around forever. Your choices become a lot more precious. The gap between your dreams and what you're actually doing narrows, and you start living your life more directly. What you're doing is who you are. And who you are becomes more important to you." See the full article this was taken from @ Is Your Job Your Calling (extended interview) | Fast Company.

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